Divorce Attorneys

 The issue of ending a relationship, no matter how long, can get even more difficult when legalities are involved. Finding an attorney can be a strenuous task during a divorce, especially if you are in a vulnerable state. Interviewing divorce attorneys is a necessary task, but keep in mind you must make decisions with your head, and not your heart. Don’t act on impulses and the kind words of strangers who may make promises that sound like a dream come true.

The process will involve numerous meetings, contacts, emails, and phone calls that can rack up thousands of dollars. The difficult times may get even more difficult. Costs will inevitably pile up, but remember to THINK during arduous times, even if things seem overwhelming and you may feel pressured to make snap decisions. Making smart choices during these especially pressing times will save you in the long run.

Divorce Attorneys have a tendency to take their time, they move slow as molasses, and rack up the bill as much as possible, especially in New York City.  From my experience the Divorce Attorney has no compassion for either party going through the divorce.  Their main concern is to keep the case going for as long as possible.  They do all that they can to create more drama and anger between the parties, so that they can take more of your money.  At the end your divorce, the attorneys end up with most of your money and the two of you get whatever is left.  BE-AWARE of the Divorce Attorney, he or she is not your friend.

My divorce took two and a half years and in the end, we both got close to equal of what was left.  It would have been much more profitable for the both of us, had we not allowed our emotions to get the best of us.  A year and half later, we do everything in our power to accept the fact that we did not work as a couple, but we have two amazing children together and nothing in the world is more important to us than them.   May we all just be happy and move on with our lives in peace.